Demisexualspike describes someone who is typically demisexual; only experiencing sexual attraction after forming a deep emotional bond; but who occasionally and rarely experiences sudden, unexpected spikes of sexual attraction without needing an emotional connection. These spikes are usually short-lived and do not align with their usual patterns of attraction. Despite these rare instances, a demisexualspike individual still identifies primarily with the demisexual orientation.
Demisexualspike is part of the Demi Orientation.
Mateo always identified as demisexual, feeling sexual attraction only when he had a deep emotional connection with someone. This understanding gave him a sense of clarity and confidence. However, there were a few times when Mateo experienced something unexpected. For instance, during a concert, he felt a sudden, intense attraction to the lead singer; a complete stranger. The feeling surprised him because it didn’t follow the usual pattern he knew about himself.
Confused, Mateo confided in his friend Gabriela. “I’m demisexual, but every now and then, I feel this random, strong attraction out of nowhere. It’s rare, but it happens,” he said. Gabriela nodded thoughtfully and shared a term she’d recently learned: demisexualspike. “It sounds like you’re still demisexual most of the time, but with occasional spikes of attraction,” she explained.
Hearing this term made Mateo feel relieved. He realized these rare spikes didn’t invalidate his identity; they were just a unique part of it. Embracing the label demisexualspike gave him the tools to understand himself better and explain his experiences to others. It reminded him that identities can have nuances, and it’s okay to feel things that don’t always fit perfectly into one category.
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