Énas is an orientation prefix describing individuals who experience attraction to only one other person throughout their lifetime. This term emphasizes the unique and lifelong exclusivity of their attraction, whether romantic, sexual, or a combination of both. Individuals with Énas-based orientations may find their attraction deeply meaningful and rare, focusing on one singular connection rather than forming multiple attractions over time.
Lucía had always felt different from her friends when it came to relationships. While her peers dated multiple people throughout high school and college, Lucía never felt the need to seek out romantic or sexual connections. Her friends often teased her, saying, “You’re just picky!” But Lucía didn’t feel picky; she just didn’t experience attraction in the same way. It wasn’t until she met Gabriel, her college lab partner, that Lucía felt the spark of something more.
Over time, Lucía and Gabriel grew closer, and she realized he was the only person she’d ever felt drawn to in such a profound way. One evening, while exploring LGBTQ+ terminology, Lucía came across the term Énasromantic. Reading the description, she thought, “This is me.” She shared the term with Gabriel, explaining, “It’s not just that I love you; it’s that I’ve never loved anyone else this way, and I never will.”
Embracing her identity as Énasromantic helped Lucía make sense of her unique experience. It also gave her a way to confidently explain her orientation to others, affirming that her feelings were valid and didn’t need to align with societal expectations. For Lucía, discovering Énas was like finding the perfect word for a part of herself she had always known but never fully understood. It brought her clarity, pride, and a deeper connection to her identity.
Énas Orientations
History
The Énas prefix and its associated terms were coined on May 6th, 2021, by Discord users Colin Delacroix and Tjorven. The term was inspired by a need to describe a specific and rare form of attraction that does not align with more commonly understood orientations. The word “Énas” is derived from Greek, meaning “one” or “only,” reflecting the singular focus of the attraction.