Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day is observed on the third Saturday in July, encouraging individuals to let go of regrets and focus on the present. Founded by motivational speaker Martha J. Ross-Rodgers, the day promotes self-compassion and personal growth by urging people to release feelings of guilt and self-blame associated with past decisions. Typical customs include writing down regrets and discarding the paper as a symbolic act of letting go, creating vision boards to visualize future goals, and composing compassionate letters to oneself. Participants are also encouraged to share their experiences with others, fostering connections and support. This day serves as a reminder that while the past cannot be changed, one can shape a better future through current actions. By embracing the present, individuals can live more authentically and free from the burdens of "what if."