Allogender is a term used to describe individuals who identify with a gender that is not considered part of the agiagender spectrum. This can include any gender identity that aligns with or fits within typical gender categories, such as male, female, non-binary, or other gender identities. Unlike agender individuals who may feel no connection to gender, allogender individuals experience a clear sense of gender identity. The term helps differentiate those who identify with a defined gender from those who are agender or genderneutral.
Carlos had always felt comfortable with the idea of having a distinct gender. Growing up in a large, supportive family, he never questioned why he identified as male; it just felt natural. However, during college, Carlos met people with different gender experiences, including those who identified as agender or genderqueer. This sparked curiosity and led him to learn more about gender identities. One evening, his friend Lucia, who identified as agender, explained her experience of feeling no connection to gender. Carlos responded thoughtfully, saying, “I guess that makes me allogender since I do feel connected to being male.” This conversation deepened Carlos’s understanding and appreciation for the wide range of gender experiences. Realizing he was allogender didn’t change his self-perception, but it helped him understand where he fit in the broader spectrum of gender identities. This newfound awareness made Carlos more empathetic and supportive of friends navigating their gender journeys.