The suffix -(pro)nominal refers to the diverse ways individuals choose to express themselves through pronouns, which can serve as a form of gender expression but are not always tied directly to one’s gender. Pronouns, like clothing, hairstyles, or other characteristics, can reflect one’s identity without needing to align perfectly with societal expectations or norms about gender. The term highlights the freedom and creativity people have in choosing pronouns that fit their preferences or identities, and it encompasses a wide variety of pronoun experiences. Read more about Pronouns.
Some notable forms of pronoun expression include:
- Multipronominal: Individuals who are comfortable using multiple pronouns (e.g., they/them, he/him, she/her) interchangeably.
- Nullpronominal: Individuals who opt not to use pronouns at all, often being referred to by their name exclusively.
- Neopronominal: Pronouns outside traditional language structures, such as xe/xem, noun-based pronouns (e.g., star/stars), or emojiself pronouns (e.g., 🌟/🌟self).
- Dubtiopronominal: A term for those who are questioning or uncertain about their pronouns, reflecting exploration or fluidity.
Santiago always felt that pronouns could be a fun and creative part of self-expression. While many of their friends used traditional pronouns like she, he, or they, Santiago enjoyed experimenting with pronouns that reflected different parts of their personality. One day, Santiago decided to try rain/rains, inspired by their love for stormy weather. “Rain is calming, strong, and a little unpredictable; just like me,” Santiago explained with a smile.
Over time, Santiago became involved in an LGBTQ+ group where others shared their experiences with pronouns. Their friend Camila, for example, identified as dubtiopronoun and often felt unsure about which pronouns fit best. “Sometimes I’m okay with she, sometimes they, and other times I prefer just my name,” Camila said. Santiago appreciated Camila’s openness and started exploring multiple pronouns for themself, cycling between rain/rains, they/them, and even star/stars, inspired by another friend in the group.
At one meeting, someone introduced neopronouns, like ze/zir or emojiself pronouns such as 🌟/🌟self. Santiago realized just how expansive and expressive pronouns could be. “It’s amazing how pronouns can go beyond gender; they can reflect who you are, your mood, or even just your creativity,” they shared with the group.
By identifying with the -(pro)nominal suffix, Santiago embraced the idea that pronouns were more than a functional part of language. They became a canvas for expressing individuality, breaking free from expectations, and connecting with others who valued the same sense of exploration and freedom.