In love with your psychologist: what is transference?

In love with your psychologist: what is transference?

You chose the right counselor, you dealt with your initial issues and now you are in love with your therapist. If this has happened to you, you are not the only one. Many people fall in love with their psychiatrist or psychologist during their treatment. A good therapist will provide a safe haven to reveal … Read more

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Bambi Lesbian

A Bambi Lesbian is a lesbian who finds fulfillment in affectionate, sensual, non-sexual acts, such as cuddles, hugs, and kisses, rather than focusing on sexual activities. This identity highlights the value of intimacy and emotional connection over physical sexual interaction. Bambi Lesbians often prioritize building deep, meaningful relationships through affection and closeness, redefining how intimacy … Read more

Splitsen (splitting) als afweermechanisme

Splitting as a defense mechanism

Splitting is a defense mechanism in which you view something, someone, or yourself as “all good” or “all bad.” A person who splits sees the world in terms of black or white, all or nothing. It is an inability to integrate positives and negatives into one whole; often you alternately idealize and devalue something or … Read more

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Demisensual

Demisensual refers to individuals who only experience sensual attraction after forming a deep emotional bond. Sensual attraction includes the desire for physical closeness and touch, such as hugging, holding hands, or cuddling, without necessarily being romantic or sexual. For demisensual people, casual touch or physical affection might feel uncomfortable or unwelcome until they feel emotionally … Read more

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Demiaesthetic

Demiaesthetic refers to an individual who only experiences aesthetic attraction after forming a deep emotional bond. Aesthetic attraction is about appreciating someone’s appearance or physical beauty without it necessarily being linked to romantic or sexual feelings. For demiaesthetic individuals, this type of attraction does not occur spontaneously or with casual acquaintances; it requires a foundation … Read more

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Demiqueerplatonic

Demiqueerplatonic describes individuals who only experience queerplatonic attraction after forming a deep emotional bond. Queerplatonic attraction is more profound than typical friendship but not inherently romantic; it occupies a unique space that blends elements of intense friendship and deep partnership. Demiqueerplatonic individuals may find that it takes significant time, trust, and shared experiences before this … Read more

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Demiplatonic

Demiplatonic refers to an individual who only experiences platonic attraction after forming a significant emotional bond with someone. Unlike those who naturally or immediately feel platonic attraction, demiplatonic individuals require time and closeness to develop the desire for deep friendship or connection. This type of orientation is part of the demi- spectrum, emphasizing that certain … Read more

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Demi-alterous

Demi-alterous is an orientation where an individual experiences alterous attraction only after forming a significant emotional bond. Alterous attraction exists in a space that is not fully romantic or platonic but somewhere in between, blending elements of both. For demi-alterous individuals, this unique attraction does not arise until a deep connection is established. This orientation … Read more

Demi (Orientation)

Demi (Orientation)

The prefix Demi- describes someone who only feels attraction after forming a deep emotional bond with another person. The word comes from the English word “half,” meaning that attraction doesn’t happen right away but needs a strong connection first. This can apply to different types of attraction, like romantic, platonic, or sexual. The time it … Read more